There are many types of cheating which means not only having sex other than you but also flirting, sending messages especially sweet ones or chatting online with someone, giving special things to other person except if it is a relative. Even when your husband confides their feelings to others other than you is a form of cheating. Just like a simple disease, if not treated right right then, it will spread all over to human being’s body and now requires a specialist to cure the disease. All these cheats including the one you think as simple one will lead to a serious marriage relationship problem. So you as a wife must know how to live with a sick husband, I mean a cheating one otherwise, your relationship
Now, what will you do if your husband has one of the above? Is it possible to stay positive even if he cheats?
I am sharing you ways to stay fine even if your husband shows or have done cheats in your relationship. These will help you maintain a harmonious relationship as much as you can hold on and give in.
Keep Calm and Be A Good Wife
I can imagine your reaction now. Yes, calm instead of reacting right away. Even if you have observed his suspicious moves yet you do not have the concrete proof, better, avoid asking many questions as you will end up according to him, a nagger. Even if you found the truth, be a good wife by talking to him heart to heart . Do the same as if he is a good husband all through out your marriage.
A Positive Mind will give you a positive life-Quote. As a wife, you want the best for your family. Even if you know your husband is on the process of cheating or even if he is not on a current relationship with a mistress but you know your husband is naturally a womanizer, always instill in your mind, he is not serious with this sinful act and he still loves your family. Positively think that time will come he will change for good. As long your husband does not show violence or hurt you physically. Otherwise, it would be a different story.
How can you be beautiful when you have this aching heart? That is why stay positive. When you are positive that things will be fine, you will take care more of your self. To stay beautiful, you need to take out the negativity from your heart and mind. Have time to fix yourself in and out. Go out with your good friends and focus yourself to your children.
Marriage is a union of two hearts bind into one. If cheating is now becoming the habit of your husband and you think there is no room for change, the next thing that you must DO is to be stronger and double your faith. Perhaps, your case is not the same with mine. Your husband cheats but he is still a good husband and a good provider and yes, nobody is perfect and so you understand.
I am sharing this based from my experience where we lasted 20 years of being together. Even though mine was not the same as yours, I fervently hope as you read my blog, I was able to feed your mind to always look on the brighter side and be stronger. If things happened even we do not want to, always keep in mind, every thing happens for a reason. Maybe now, you will ask yourself why it happened but one day, you will realize and thankful it happened. God loves His children. He does not want you to live anymore in vain.